What of the other 3 clubs is your favorite overall? Which has the hottest women and the best appearance? How much on average are the private dances and rooms? Do the bouncers and staff hound you and stare at you during the dances like some states? Is it full contact hands on? I was reading one post on one message board and it said bring a raincoat cause anything goes, but wouldnt that be a risky proposition without knowing if the girl actually has a disease or anything.
I don't think the girls are "unfriendly" here but definitely less motivated to give dances. Sometimes it's nice not to be aggressively asked, but it feels like some girls here just talk to each other or hide in the back, even when not with the "high spending regulars".. I come occasionally, but when I really want a good private dance, I prefer the other 3 clubs mentioned by others.
People wanna see some stage action as well and see what their eye candy is gonna be . How is the food at these different clubs in the area? Should i eat there or is there a good restaruant in town? I am coming with a buddy from out of town soon?
That was in regards to girls getting dances to avoid being called on stage. Some places, that is not allowed. I know at Fantasies they can get away with that because there are 5 or 6 girls on stage at once. At Desire, I've never seen more than one girl on stage at the same time. Last time I was there, I was there for more than two hours and never saw one girl take the stage. She sat at the bar with a few guys and only moved to go to a booth, and both times it was in the manner of avoiding going to the stage. Thanks
I've only been in twice, so I'm a newcomer to CD. My first visit a friend and I sat alone for about an hour, but finally Brooke came over and spent a lot of time with us. I came in again by myself and Brooke spent most of my time there with me, and brought over a couple of friends. I think if the girls get to know you a little then they are great, but they are not quick to hit you up. I like it that way, so I like CD. I used to go to Foxy and girls wouldn't leave you alone. The Caddy was my favorite for a long time, but now I prefer CD. I hope this helps.
I was in last night for my monthly "boys night out". Had no trouble getting dances. Two from girls I had seen before and two from girls I've never met. (Joey, Joy Crystal and Liz)Bartenders were good looking and friendly (Linda, Lauren and Wendy) Staff was friendly (Sean and Iggy) Gerard bought me a drink.
I guess my point is I come here once a month. I am friendly and generous with the girls. I make an effort to introduce myself to the staff and girls and to remember their names. I get treated like a king.
Hey fellas is there a dress code thats strict in Providence clubs im coming out of town with a buddy. After reading posts on this board it makes me not want to visit this club. What clubs overall are my best bet to visit in one night to get some good booth or curtain dances with women? Who has good food in the area or what club? Is it worth it for me to make the trip to providence or should i stay close by and go the mardi gras in mass. Basically what im wondering is are the providence clubs worth the rave or is Mardi gras just as good. Thanks so much
I can't complain about the dances. Times I've visited, booth dances are out of this world. The issue is actually getting some of these dancers to talk to you. A lot of them do seem to hang out at the bar with other dancers and customers. I assume those are the " regulars " that I've seen mentioned. Once, I heard one of the girls say to some guy who asked for a dance, " Wait until right before they call me to the stage ". What's that all about? This place does have more girls who are not customer friendly than other places. That I agree with.
I can't say I have been to clubs all over the world but been to most in the tri state area as well as some on the west coast. I have to agree with most that has been said here being the club and the dancers are aloof. I have been here several times, always willing to spend money, but left saying I never will return. It is not just because the private dances are lousy, which they are, but there is just no welcome mat here. A little hospitality can go a long way. I know there is the buffet and the occasional drink but we can eat or drink anywhere. My humble opinion.
I am so amused by some of the negative comments I've seen recently. I've been to clubs all over the world for 30 plus years and CD is top notch. True you don't always have level 10 girls all day but no club does. Dancers are friendly if you tip them a little and buy them a drink, its not that complicated. Free parking, free buffet, free admission before 8PM, drinks on the house from time to time, intimate environment, pretty girls, my definition of heaven.
A lot of crying over what amounts to absolutely nothing. The girls here are just fine and its about odds. Odds are a third of the girls only care about regulars, a third will do anything for ANYBODY and the other third are great girls worth really sticking around for, for the conversation and companionship. YOU PAY FOR ATTENTION- they aren't girlfriends. Have a good time and enjoy it for what it is. I was there last night and several girls came up to me, as is the case all the time.
It's ANONYMOUS, not Unanimous. Second, if people didn't keep the conversation going, this would have been dropped a long time ago. I offered up my take when someone asked how this place is on Friday night by saying that unless you're a regular, it's a waste of time because the girls don't bother with anyone they don't know. That's where this should have ended. When someone keeps responding that all you have to do is approach her on stage and throw down a nice tip, everybody else got into the mix. I'm all for moving on. Stop responding. The girls here are not receptive to guys who aren't regulars, no matter how much money they might have.
Well, if you were the girl who blew me off, who I've known for three years or so, well, you know that in the past, I have always hooked you up. I never asked for anything in the form of extras outside of a good dance, which you always delivered. Your bullshit apology when I saw you a couple of weeks later had me more pissed than when you ignored me. Are you that girl? You must be, why else would you be serving as the stripper spokesperson?
The girls here are not stuck up, one guy who is pissy about not getting his lap dance is having a blast starting drama...Stop whining like a little girl. Us girls are here to make a living, so if we need to spend time with the guys who are spending real money....(ex more than 50 friggin bucks) then leave us to it or step up your game. We have bills to pay, kids to feed, ect, ect, and I for one dont feel like leaving my rent unpaid so I can cater to the tiny ego of some whiny brat.
Okay!!!! everyone knows you're pissed off!!!! nobody cares!!!!go away!!!!stop explaining!!!!we can read!!!!this girl and this club is not for you!!!!
for those of you that are interested:
pink palace: anyone showing up with $100 bucks in his pocket can get some sort of "extra".
cl: 50/50 chance $100 to $200 gets you anything you want in the curtain room
cf: 50/50 chance for hj less for bj for your $100 to $200
cd:there are some exceptions but for the most part, the girls here won't put out unless they know you and trust you.
The verdict is in and the jury seems to have decided that Desire is not the place to go. Well. add me to the list. The girls in there think they're in a class by themselves. If they want to turn this into a members only club for so called important people, then do it and spare regular people just looking for a night out. The chicks in here need a real attitude adjustment and the management that allow these bitches to blow off customers are even bigger assholes.
so far most of everyone agree's that the girls are rude and they pay no respect to a reg joe with lots of money, if a dancer is busy with a sugar dady ''suckers' the bitch should tell the guy she's busy . if you are new to this club treat the dancers just like the girls from the other clubs.just whores selling themself's at a providence strip club. lets see who's going to defend this. an old suger dady .stay away its not friendly in here.
It's kind of hard to get a dance from any girl whose priority is to hang out at the bar. I had the money that night. I didn't even get the opportunity to talk to her. The fact that she chose to stay with high rollers doesn't bother me. If she had said so when I approached her, I would not have got pissed off. She just ignored me, that's the issue. If she had told me that she was tied up, things would be fine. What kind of douchebag apologizes to someone by defending herself for being a stuck up bitch? Not only is she dead to me, so is Desire.
Been to all of the clubs. I prefer this one as once you stop in more than once and kind of regularly, you are a reasonable person and not completely unattractive you will be noticed. Like all things, be patient, be kind, and considerate and you will have an excellent time. For those "gentlemen" out there who stop in once out of the blue asking for extras from a woman who doesn't know you and in addition look and smell like a goat, you will get exactly what you deserve ... absolutely nothing.
The girls in here are not all that friendly nor better looking than the competition so I and others move on to finer pastures. Also, the private dances for the most part don't level up with the others. And, there is always economics. Conclusion! Why the hell would anyone want to spend money here unless you were a so called insider?
That's good it's your last time explaining yourself. We understand what happened. One girl blew you off for some customers who were more important (profitable) to her. Happens all the time in every club in the world. Some dancers can juggle multiple customers, some can't. You need to get over it. My comments were directed to those who want to know how the "low pressure" atmosphere club works.
A little of everything stage tipping, fully nude dances VIP Time? Maybe a few different ladies maybe not mostly the hotter ones. How much is the VIP time in a club like caddy fantasies or foxy? I may not even go here the way the posts are coming about regulars and dancers.
I didn't hang around long enough to wait for her to get to the stage. She ignored me when I approached her on the floor. I wouldn't keep pursuing the matter anywhere else, why would I do so in a strip club? I was there another 15 or 20 minutes and all she was doing was hanging at the bar with 2 or 3 guys. The next time I saw hr, she apologized and said that's how it is when guys like that are in the club. Well, I'm not going to go back and hope I can get a dance some other time. From now on, I'll go somewhere else.
Hey, I'm really sorry that one of the strippers (one that you had known for years) blew you off because she had a better offer but it's not as difficult to line up some action as some of you are making it out to be. Every club has its own vibe. This one is more laid back but if you are interested in spending $$$ on a girl and you make that known, she won't blow you off.
I don't know if once a month makes me a regular but my once a month is always a lot of fun.
The answer is simple. Bring as much cash as you can afford. A hundred bucks will get you a hundred bucks worth of fun. A thousand will get you ten times as much fun! What are you looking to do? DO you want a bunch of $20 dances from a bunch of different ladies? Do you want VIP? You are asking a question that only you can answer. Count on paying a ten to fifteen dollar cover after 6pm and count on about seven to eight dollars per drink including tip. After that you are simply buying dancer's time... How much you spend will determine how much you get.
The last few ten or so posts have been great really letting a a customer know the ins and outs of the club. Once you get warmed up here and head for the other clubs, Caddy fantasies or Foxy, and want to have a real good night out and enjoy all the dances and private areas how much money is enough on a popular night like a Friday or Saturday to really enjoy these clubs and what the dancers have to offer?
I agree with others. Come here for a drink and TV ie to warm up. When you want to get to know a girl and spend the big bucks on dances, leave and head to Fantasies or Cadillac or Foxy. Less clinging to regulars there (some girls will even leave a regular to dance/grind for you and know regular will still be waiting when they're done). This is unlikely to happen at Desires
Okay, I approach the girl on stage and ask for a dance. Sounds good. I guess approaching a girl while she is walking the floor is out, even if you've known her for three years. Gotcha. What part of she ignored me don't you understand? If she looked me in the eye and walked right past me on the floor, why would she talk to me on stage? When I saw her again, she told me that's how it is when high spending regulars are there. Only an asshole would accept that as an answer. It is what it is, so now I stay away from here.
All the clubs (except for Foxy, haven't been there recently) have similar girls & similar 'bang'. The only difference is the the different atmosphere that each club offers. And I guess that's personal preference.
As has been said before, all you need to do is approach a dancer at the stage, tip her, and let her know you'd like a dance. She'll make time for you unless she's tied up with a "whale", which isn't often. She'll probably spend a little, not a lot, of time on small talk before wanting to go for the dance. If the vibe is there, get the dance. On future trips, she'll remember you and you'll get more attention. That's just the way it works here, most of us like it that way. If a dancer is aggressively working the customers here, she's probably new. Or the rent is due :). Go for it...enjoy yourself...don't be shy!
I'd agree with that if I was a newcomer to this business. But I guess you didn't read the post. I've known her for years from another club. I approached her while she was walking around and she kept walking to be with a gang at the bar. So I finished my drink and took off. The next time I went in, it was a weeknight. I didn't know she was working. She saw me and approached me to apologize but said they spend a lot of money. So I returned the favor and ignored her and got dances from another girl. The moral of the story is the best girls are someone else's property on weekends.
went there a few months ago on a weekend during the day shift, only 4 guys there a dancer was called to the stage''she wasn't sitting with anyone''went to the stage gave her a NICE tip ask her if she's busy with anyone , told me no, ask if we could have a drink together she said yes as soon as i get off the stage. I KNOW YOU KNOW WHERE THIS IS GOING.the bitch got off stage didn't even look my way walked over to one of the other guys sat with him for the entire time i was there.that bitch will never get another dollar
from me.if you are not a reg.STAY AWAY.
If you guys want the attentions of an entertainer at Desires, try coming to the stage, leave a nice tip, and let her know you would like her to dance for you. Its a sure fire way to get to know her. Once you have danced with her...chances are shell hope you'd want to dance again another day and you get the attention you want. Sitting twiddling your thumbs is no way to get noticed. Not with the regs waving down their fave girls, or grabbing them at the stage for those dances.
The thing is, I didn't drop good loot. Outside of the cover charge and two or three drinks, I didn't drop hardly any money. After getting blown off by the girl I wanted to get some dances from, I left. When I went back a couple of weeks later on a weeknight, she tried to apologize to me by basically defending being a snotty bitch. I had no part of it. Try Fantasies. They allow high level contact and the girls are pretty hot. Some might even go the " extra " mile. Cheaters is a dive. The girls do extras but you're taking your health and safety into your own hands. Foxy isn't what it used to be. I've never been to Cadillac Lounge.
WHY go here then if your an out of towner looking to drop just good loot and have fun with some gorgeous women if they wont even give you the time of day unless your a regular. What other clubs is the next option then?
If you come here Friday night and are not a regular, the best girls won't even bother with you. Last time I went in on a weekend night, a girl I've known for years from another place blew me off. When I came again on a week night that she was working, she approached me and half assed apologized. She said the guys she blew me off in favor of were there all the time and spend big money. I ignored her the rest of the night I was there and got dances from another girl.
Good chat on all 4 major local clubs recently. This club does make money on regulars who buy lots of drinks to talk with "their" girls, leaving less options for newcomers to get to know a dancer and decide if they want to buy a dance. That's ok if you want to get a beer buzz while watching sports (nice TV setup here) before finding a good grind at one of the other clubs.
IF you come here and your not a regular but bring a good amount of money can u get some action ? What private areas for dances do they have in this club and how is the pricing? Is there full nude dancing on stages too?
How is the club desire itself compared to the other clubs in the area fantasies caddy and foxy? I heard its small and cramped. How is the pricing for dances and rooms? How much do you gotta throw around to see some action if ur not a regular? Is there hot woman here above a 6 or what? Is it like you cant even get to a girl its so busy?
I've been thru here and gotten my end wet a few times. Some girls do, and some don't. I've always had luck here, but I'm a regular. First timers usually don't get more than a PP touch thru their pants, UNLESS they're throwing around HUGE $$$$$. Not with this economy.
Lust is very nice. $300. gets you access and $80 in comps per month for 3 months. Food is always good here, and upstairs is no exception. The CRs upstairs are KICK ASS. Leather Couch, 52" flat pannel TV, in a 10x10 (or so) room with a real LOCKING door!!!! Yes I spent the $300, and have not regretted it at all. You can also bring a guest or 2 up with you, aside from your favorite dancer.
I'm planning a trip down from Beantown next week. If I can't "get no satisfaction" from the Brazilians at the club, I may have to travel to the "other side of the world" in search of Koreans. Can someone tell me what the top AMP is these days in Providence?
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