The deal is dancers parade around half nude or completely nude in sexy outfits and men pay CASH to have private dances, and most men are looking for sexy and shapely women. Despite women like Oprah Winfrey claiming that basically all women are beautiful no matter how unattractive and how heavy - the reality is many of these "exotic" dancers in these clubs, (although probably nice people otherwise), shouldn't really be dancing in the first place. A customer could hang out at any Walmart store for FREE if he wants to see women like that. I suppose we are to believe women when they go to see Chippendale Dancers want just average males with fat rolls hanging off them? Average won't work much longer in this business.
My advice to any dancer, new or old, is go to work. Not only do the customers need to realize that when we come in you are at work...but you need to realize that you are at work. Don't spend your time gossiping in the dressing room. Don't spend your time sitting at the bar with some guy for more than ten minutes just cause he bought you a drink. Don't upsell. If a guy buys a by the song topless dance, give him your best...then suggest a booth. If a guy buys a booth, seduce him, if you are sexy and seductive, he'll be coming back for more. I have danced with many of the Desire Girls with a wide variety of "boundaries" but the one quality of all the girls that get repeat business is a sexy and seductive personality.
and then there's irresistible seduction. A truly professional exotic dancer knows how to make a guy want to spend his money for her time. It's an art - and very few women in the business really understand it.
This is nothing new folks. The girls who hustle will always be the money makers. Any girl who thinks all she has to do is wait for the money to come to her is selling herself short and leaving money on the floor. FYI, there are plenty of very average looking woman doing just fine in clubs.
will both be needed very soon and "hustle" may sound bad but its about not laying back, and instead aggressively intermixing with potential clients and asking guys for dances, champagne sessions, or whatever to produces revenue. So long as the girl is polite when the guy says no, there is nothing wrong with it. As for beauty, 10 level is not necessary, 8 level will do it for most, however these girls below the 7 or 8 level, I don't see how they can make it in this business, except as very low earners, when this upcoming recession starts to really hit hard
Extras? Not unless you count the fact that I charged "extra" to take my bottoms off.
I know how to give a dance and how to keep a nice, appreciative guy interested. I'm no angel sweetie but a girl doesn't have to go "all the way" to earn a living in a club.
To Just Moved: yoda and 10LB are right. I danced at CD and two other Providence clubs mostly days a few years ago. The money is there but it doesn't come to you. The pretty girls who sit at the bar and wait are leaving money out there for the girls who know how to hustle. Yoda honey, when are you gonna come visit me again? Wink wink...
yes, they used to be able to sit back and let the guys approach them. With this economy, its not very likely to work for much longer. Some already have seen their business drop. This would be more applicable to clubs like Caddy and Fantasies, where the girls are more aggressive in general
Well, rare and astonishingly beautiful doesn't mean anything if you don't have a personality or know how to work a room full of customers. The common misconception among men, and even some dancer, is that only extremely beautiful women or chicks that do extras make any money in a strip club. This has never been the case. Beautiful women with no game and who are not willing to work hard leave money on the floor all the time. The game doesn't come to you as a stripper, it's the other way around.
in Providence will generally go totally nude as is necessary, and even some of these relatively rare and astonishly beautiful women are having trouble today earning anywhere near the money they were earning a few years back
Nude Laps: With all due respect there is money to be made in any club by any dancer who is smart enough to make it. I'm primarily a daytime customer and I know at least a couple of dancers in every club in town that bank during the day shift without taking off their g-strings...or offering extras either btw...
I'm not here to debate who makes more or what shift is better, just trying to give the lady some information.
What's the extra's like with Toni or Chase? HJ, BJ, FS, how about going down on them? And yes I'm respectful, good looking and have the money. Do they work the same Shifts during the week? I would like to try a threesome with both of them. Thanks
I have to disagree with Yoda, whose opinions I respect. The money to be made in this club is in the booths & champagne, and customers expect nude. I'd be surprised if you could make decent money by limiting yourself to just topless dances in the open area. On stage, the nude room is open Thu, Fri, & Sat nights after 10. All dancers on the shift have to be in the nude room rotation. Although a few are not actually going completely nude when in there.
of course which generally means hj, bj or FS, however some kind of "no nude in private dances/ or Champagne room rule" - you are going to take a major hit on earnings. You will even have trouble holding on to married guys as regulars, patrons that often have cash, with that kind of a rule, who now and then want an all nude dancer. Providence is a SUPER high contact, and while many patrons are perfectly content with clean dances - its very uncommon for girls to have that kind of a rule.
You don't have to do all nude private dances at Club Desire or any other club in Providence. It will effect your money but if you have the right look, the right attitude and patience you will do fine. All of the clubs have a two tier pricing system for LD's with topless being cheaper than full nude. The exception is of course the VIP or champagne rooms where most guys will want you to go full nude. It's always your call, just don't BS the guy. I never buy full nude dances and there are many lovely ladies in Providence who have my business....good luck!
The area and was looking for a new club. I'm finding this a little difficult considering I don't like to dance nude. Not that there is anything wrong with it, I just don't care for it. I don't necessarily mind it on stage, just not when I'm giving a dance. What's this club like? also does it have champaign rooms?? Any info is appreciated.
what ever happened to that old broad here that used to think she was all that? i remember her name was frankie or some silly name like that....... hahaha , what a joke she was, not a grinder at all...... and the old paris wasn't something to brag about, she would give her digits freely and hands would roam freely on the booths.
Hey does anyone know if this or any other RI clubs are looking for DJ's? Not looking to steal shifts just fill one to two nights or perhaps just do fill in. Are many of the clubs up here connected, like NYC, (meaning you can work for multiple strip clubs)or are they different owners? Thanks for any help.
Malia is beautiful. I wish I had her money. Most of us are 25 going on 60. All u losers come in here try to get us drunk and to play with your sausages. Just hand over your $ and go home.
Big Frankie, your the best DJ in the budiness !!!
I have to agree that this business takes a toll on the ladies. If a girl gets into the business, moves too far too fast, gets the wrong advice, the toll is the drinking/smoking/drugs it takes to deal with the assholes that feel she is there to be used and abused for his personal pleasure. If a girl gets into the business with a plan, with personal boundaries that she is comfortable with and the discipline to follow that plan and stick to those boundries this can be a way to sock away some money and finance a future. I have known girls that have kept to their plan and succeeded and those that have compromised and failed. Unfortunately there were fewer of the former than the latter.
the old paris was a nice person. she had a lot of problems Rx drugs, depression, and drinking but she would never do extras so all that stuff is bull and she was in playboy april of 05 i know she had a very vey very rich guy who bought her a new car paid her rent ect. but i think he is long gone she may be with a diff guy now but at some point he will smarten up and she will be back here or somewhere
LOL, this is pretty funny...Some jealous dancer has a bug up her ass because she either lost a customer to Malia or can't understand how she makes money without being dirty...Grow up girls, we all know how it works here...
my 2 cents on paris and malia, paris is a good person hope she does well, her bf richard is a great guy, very kind person, malia is a great girl, she is very very beautiful, the comments below are by someone who is in love with malia and cant have her
This industry ages girls in dog years. They start out at eighteen or nineteen and smoke and drink themselves into a stupor for ten or twelve years. By the time they're thirty they might as well be sixty. God knows you don't want to see them without their makeup on out on the patio.
Any info on Pixie. I know she came back and now I hear she got fired.
About older dancers, 30+, I think they are the best. I don't
want to spend time with a girl who is young enough to be my daughter and may have gone to school with her.
The bevy of beauties at CD is not limited to the young or the old. Age is a number, not a definition. There are many Desire Girls that are over the age of thirty that put their younger counterparts to shame.
I'm not going to name them because then a handful of lowlife losers will follow up with posts about these girls and my compliment will be turned into an attack.
Why are people talking about Wendy? She is what she is and thats all that matters. She doesnt work here any more she is retired who care h many kids fathers she has that is her problem. She must be rolling in child support money though.lol She is old news drop it, even when her "sugar daddy Richard" is out of the picture she might go back to cheaters where she belogs and where she came from. ya know she was there as "sexy Lexi". Enough is enough lay off the old lady
paris is a fat ass who cares she did playboy they can make ugly people look good i did the booth with her awhile back she let me play with her pussy she taste like fish she turn me off did you ever see her feet ugly is more like it that;swhy she wears boots all the time so she ain;t all that what a skank i would;t let my dog fuck her i hear she has std;s for real
Hey numb nuts. There are plenty of 20 somethings with fat thighs dancing all around Providence who could learn a thing or two from some of the older gals who take dancing and their bodies seriously....Oh yeah, the world series MVP is 34 by the way...idiot...
before you post stuff on here make sure you know what you're talking about and respect people...i've known wendy and been good friends with her and her sister tracy for 15 years...yeah she has 5 kids, 2 from her ex [if they actually are divorced] and one each from 3 other guys who i know...her current boyfriend is a great guy, knows her history and takes very good care of her and isn't about to walk out...and yes she was in playboy about 2 years ago in a may feature called desperate houswives...and i don't think she'd want any part of your body anywhere near her to begin with...so get a life buddy and stop posting shit about people
to the man who said that she had 4 kids, get with the program try 5 kids 5 different FATHERS. Thank God she is outta here, she may look good and all, but she is a hoe. I wouldnt touch that with any piece of my body. I feel bad for her sugar daddy who is like 50 yrs old. My advise for him is to RUN before you become the next baby daddy...
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