Fantasies has the same quality of women in terms of appearance as Desire and other clubs (obvioulsy way better than Cheaters and Sportsman), and you can't beat the 2-for-1 dances all day and night Mon and Tues, and the $10 dollar dances during select 2-hour blocks other days. Desire is good if you want to eat good food and look at girls without being harangued for dances (some consider this being ignored though).
The three similar clubs (Desire, Fantasies and Caddy) have virtually the same talent level (looks) and virtually the same friction factor (important parts of her body touching important parts of my body).
The Foxy talent is higher but friction is lower.
Cheaters the friction is higher but the talent is way lower.
Sportsmens and Satin Doll barely count.
The reason I prefer Desire is because of the laid back atmosphere in which I can choose the girl I want rather than being "attacked" by the wanna dance? barrage.
It all depends on what you are looking for.
when the girl is really really hot and its like 100% private (with nearly any dance now -with the new design) and she's pushing that naked clit into your lap and the boobs are in your face, and they're really making extra effort on the grind, yup that's what's improved over at Foxy, and that can all be nice, although its still overpriced . That said, Desire is good also for other reasons. Providence in fact is a great city for strip fans.
Who agrees with Rhode Island guy that Club desire is number one? I would say fantasies and cadillac lounge are the best overall with Desire in 3rd or 4th or a close tie with Foxy. Foxy actually has the best looking girls its just they dont do extras but there is contact im told lately.
I wasn't inquiring because I have no clue. I was responding to all these comments about how easy it is to get a girl to dance for you, talk to you, etc. There are girls who do nothing but hang around at the bar with customers and/or other dancers. I was being sarcastic when it looks like I was asking a question. The point I was making was that some of these girls will only talk to guys that are there all the time. Sometimes, it doesn't matter how much money you have.
This club is like any other strip club.. the more $$$$ you have the more the girls pay attention to you… don’t have any delusions and think their falling in love with .you ….there falling in love with your $$$$$…. If you want to pull them away from there regular customers spend more $$$$$ then reg…. If you don’t have $$$$$…. Stop complaining…..
Yeah, Sonya/Selena's back. Who cares? Her attitude hasn't changed a bit. She's still a bitch. I've never met a stripper more in love with herself than her. Her looks are good enough to get a guy to buy a lap dance or a booth dance but her attitude won't get a repeat customer. And her looks don't go past her rack. She's no more attractive than any other girl, just has bigger tits than most. She had an attitude at Fantasies, acting like she was doing you a favor giving you a dance. At Desire, their layout helps her expand on her pompous attitude. Yeah, she's back. And hasn't changed a bit. Still a douchebag.
best enjoyed early to mid afternoon weekdays when the dancer to customer ratio is about even, and now and then some pretty decent hotties are working. Its a good balance to other style clubs in town, plus the food is great, and its well located for a quckie if for example you've just arrived via the airport.
Okay, so from what I have been reading, and experienced on several occasions, this place is just a pain in the arse! It is much simpler to go elsewhere and be treated like they are glad to see you there. After all if you are in the hospitality business, isn't the red carpet supposed to be rolled out for everyone, not just a select few?
This happened to me on a weekend night. The girl I wanted was basically sitting at the bar for the hour or so that I was there hanging with a group of guys. It was almost as though they were all taking turns taking her to the booth or the lap dance area. After a while, you kind of get bored waiting seeing as how these girls don't make their way around the room. That's why I took off. At least it wasn't a costly bad experience.
Yes if she is just chatting with a group of guys, its okay to go and say hi, and ask for a dance. If she is working only a single guy, then its usually not okay to come over, as it may cost her the dance she is hustling. Most Mon-Sat day shifts have enough girls that everyone sees the stage, and the girls are easily approachable as theres more competition for dances and money. Sunday day shifts are slower, with less girls, so its harder to get one to be available for a dance.
Okay, so tell me this. Is it a good idea to approach a girl while she is hanging around with customers at the bar? Because there are girls who do not seem to leave the bar area until they get up to do a booth in order to avoid going on stage. If she never makes her way to the stage and is at the bar with customers the rest of the time, what's a guy to do? You see, going to a strip club for me is the same thing as buying a car or going out to eat, I want what I want, not something I have to settle for.
DESIRE by design uses more of an intimate club-like social approach than other clubs in town and they basically prefer that the girls not use the standard (aggressive style) "wanna dance" approach with random customers - that the other 3 major (legit) clubs not only allow but encourage. This simply means sometimes YOU have to approach dancers, Its not a big deal really as most dancers are glad to make money. As for food arround town, Foxy is worst, with Caddy and Fantasies expensive but tasty, and of course Desire has the buffets which are very very good.
What of the other 3 clubs is your favorite overall? Which has the hottest women and the best appearance? How much on average are the private dances and rooms? Do the bouncers and staff hound you and stare at you during the dances like some states? Is it full contact hands on? I was reading one post on one message board and it said bring a raincoat cause anything goes, but wouldnt that be a risky proposition without knowing if the girl actually has a disease or anything.
I don't think the girls are "unfriendly" here but definitely less motivated to give dances. Sometimes it's nice not to be aggressively asked, but it feels like some girls here just talk to each other or hide in the back, even when not with the "high spending regulars".. I come occasionally, but when I really want a good private dance, I prefer the other 3 clubs mentioned by others.
People wanna see some stage action as well and see what their eye candy is gonna be . How is the food at these different clubs in the area? Should i eat there or is there a good restaruant in town? I am coming with a buddy from out of town soon?
That was in regards to girls getting dances to avoid being called on stage. Some places, that is not allowed. I know at Fantasies they can get away with that because there are 5 or 6 girls on stage at once. At Desire, I've never seen more than one girl on stage at the same time. Last time I was there, I was there for more than two hours and never saw one girl take the stage. She sat at the bar with a few guys and only moved to go to a booth, and both times it was in the manner of avoiding going to the stage. Thanks
I've only been in twice, so I'm a newcomer to CD. My first visit a friend and I sat alone for about an hour, but finally Brooke came over and spent a lot of time with us. I came in again by myself and Brooke spent most of my time there with me, and brought over a couple of friends. I think if the girls get to know you a little then they are great, but they are not quick to hit you up. I like it that way, so I like CD. I used to go to Foxy and girls wouldn't leave you alone. The Caddy was my favorite for a long time, but now I prefer CD. I hope this helps.
I was in last night for my monthly "boys night out". Had no trouble getting dances. Two from girls I had seen before and two from girls I've never met. (Joey, Joy Crystal and Liz)Bartenders were good looking and friendly (Linda, Lauren and Wendy) Staff was friendly (Sean and Iggy) Gerard bought me a drink.
I guess my point is I come here once a month. I am friendly and generous with the girls. I make an effort to introduce myself to the staff and girls and to remember their names. I get treated like a king.
Hey fellas is there a dress code thats strict in Providence clubs im coming out of town with a buddy. After reading posts on this board it makes me not want to visit this club. What clubs overall are my best bet to visit in one night to get some good booth or curtain dances with women? Who has good food in the area or what club? Is it worth it for me to make the trip to providence or should i stay close by and go the mardi gras in mass. Basically what im wondering is are the providence clubs worth the rave or is Mardi gras just as good. Thanks so much
I can't complain about the dances. Times I've visited, booth dances are out of this world. The issue is actually getting some of these dancers to talk to you. A lot of them do seem to hang out at the bar with other dancers and customers. I assume those are the " regulars " that I've seen mentioned. Once, I heard one of the girls say to some guy who asked for a dance, " Wait until right before they call me to the stage ". What's that all about? This place does have more girls who are not customer friendly than other places. That I agree with.
I can't say I have been to clubs all over the world but been to most in the tri state area as well as some on the west coast. I have to agree with most that has been said here being the club and the dancers are aloof. I have been here several times, always willing to spend money, but left saying I never will return. It is not just because the private dances are lousy, which they are, but there is just no welcome mat here. A little hospitality can go a long way. I know there is the buffet and the occasional drink but we can eat or drink anywhere. My humble opinion.
I am so amused by some of the negative comments I've seen recently. I've been to clubs all over the world for 30 plus years and CD is top notch. True you don't always have level 10 girls all day but no club does. Dancers are friendly if you tip them a little and buy them a drink, its not that complicated. Free parking, free buffet, free admission before 8PM, drinks on the house from time to time, intimate environment, pretty girls, my definition of heaven.
A lot of crying over what amounts to absolutely nothing. The girls here are just fine and its about odds. Odds are a third of the girls only care about regulars, a third will do anything for ANYBODY and the other third are great girls worth really sticking around for, for the conversation and companionship. YOU PAY FOR ATTENTION- they aren't girlfriends. Have a good time and enjoy it for what it is. I was there last night and several girls came up to me, as is the case all the time.
It's ANONYMOUS, not Unanimous. Second, if people didn't keep the conversation going, this would have been dropped a long time ago. I offered up my take when someone asked how this place is on Friday night by saying that unless you're a regular, it's a waste of time because the girls don't bother with anyone they don't know. That's where this should have ended. When someone keeps responding that all you have to do is approach her on stage and throw down a nice tip, everybody else got into the mix. I'm all for moving on. Stop responding. The girls here are not receptive to guys who aren't regulars, no matter how much money they might have.
Well, if you were the girl who blew me off, who I've known for three years or so, well, you know that in the past, I have always hooked you up. I never asked for anything in the form of extras outside of a good dance, which you always delivered. Your bullshit apology when I saw you a couple of weeks later had me more pissed than when you ignored me. Are you that girl? You must be, why else would you be serving as the stripper spokesperson?
The girls here are not stuck up, one guy who is pissy about not getting his lap dance is having a blast starting drama...Stop whining like a little girl. Us girls are here to make a living, so if we need to spend time with the guys who are spending real money....(ex more than 50 friggin bucks) then leave us to it or step up your game. We have bills to pay, kids to feed, ect, ect, and I for one dont feel like leaving my rent unpaid so I can cater to the tiny ego of some whiny brat.
Okay!!!! everyone knows you're pissed off!!!! nobody cares!!!!go away!!!!stop explaining!!!!we can read!!!!this girl and this club is not for you!!!!
for those of you that are interested:
pink palace: anyone showing up with $100 bucks in his pocket can get some sort of "extra".
cl: 50/50 chance $100 to $200 gets you anything you want in the curtain room
cf: 50/50 chance for hj less for bj for your $100 to $200
cd:there are some exceptions but for the most part, the girls here won't put out unless they know you and trust you.
The verdict is in and the jury seems to have decided that Desire is not the place to go. Well. add me to the list. The girls in there think they're in a class by themselves. If they want to turn this into a members only club for so called important people, then do it and spare regular people just looking for a night out. The chicks in here need a real attitude adjustment and the management that allow these bitches to blow off customers are even bigger assholes.
so far most of everyone agree's that the girls are rude and they pay no respect to a reg joe with lots of money, if a dancer is busy with a sugar dady ''suckers' the bitch should tell the guy she's busy . if you are new to this club treat the dancers just like the girls from the other clubs.just whores selling themself's at a providence strip club. lets see who's going to defend this. an old suger dady .stay away its not friendly in here.
It's kind of hard to get a dance from any girl whose priority is to hang out at the bar. I had the money that night. I didn't even get the opportunity to talk to her. The fact that she chose to stay with high rollers doesn't bother me. If she had said so when I approached her, I would not have got pissed off. She just ignored me, that's the issue. If she had told me that she was tied up, things would be fine. What kind of douchebag apologizes to someone by defending herself for being a stuck up bitch? Not only is she dead to me, so is Desire.
Been to all of the clubs. I prefer this one as once you stop in more than once and kind of regularly, you are a reasonable person and not completely unattractive you will be noticed. Like all things, be patient, be kind, and considerate and you will have an excellent time. For those "gentlemen" out there who stop in once out of the blue asking for extras from a woman who doesn't know you and in addition look and smell like a goat, you will get exactly what you deserve ... absolutely nothing.
The girls in here are not all that friendly nor better looking than the competition so I and others move on to finer pastures. Also, the private dances for the most part don't level up with the others. And, there is always economics. Conclusion! Why the hell would anyone want to spend money here unless you were a so called insider?
That's good it's your last time explaining yourself. We understand what happened. One girl blew you off for some customers who were more important (profitable) to her. Happens all the time in every club in the world. Some dancers can juggle multiple customers, some can't. You need to get over it. My comments were directed to those who want to know how the "low pressure" atmosphere club works.
A little of everything stage tipping, fully nude dances VIP Time? Maybe a few different ladies maybe not mostly the hotter ones. How much is the VIP time in a club like caddy fantasies or foxy? I may not even go here the way the posts are coming about regulars and dancers.
I didn't hang around long enough to wait for her to get to the stage. She ignored me when I approached her on the floor. I wouldn't keep pursuing the matter anywhere else, why would I do so in a strip club? I was there another 15 or 20 minutes and all she was doing was hanging at the bar with 2 or 3 guys. The next time I saw hr, she apologized and said that's how it is when guys like that are in the club. Well, I'm not going to go back and hope I can get a dance some other time. From now on, I'll go somewhere else.
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